We’ve seen the statistics- almost 50% of marriages in America end in divorce. Sometimes divorce is needed for safety reasons, sometimes couples may not know how to communicate to work through differences, and sometimes there may be other issues. No matter the cause, children are affected. There is much evidence pointing to the potential difficulty that divorce can post for children. Children who experience their parents’ divorce have increased risk of the following:
- Physical issues such as asthma and headaches
- Speech problems
- Developmental issues
- Dropping out of school
- Leaving home early
- Fewer skills and
- Lower future pay.
Children who experience their parents’ divorce are 4x more likely to have relational issues with friends and peers than children whose parents stayed together. Even years later, children of divorce have shown a tendency toward being more unhappy, lonely, insecure, and anxious.
It is important to remember that these are statistics- likelihood, risk, and potential. Not all children who experience a family divorce will experience these negative effects…but many do. We want to partner with you and your family to help lessen the likelihood that they will have more difficulty. IDEALS counselors have resources that can be helpful for couples who want to work to develop their relationship (and therefore help parents not divorce) or for children who may need help adjusting to the major life change of divorce. We work to strengthen the parent-child bond and help a child work through emotional issues. Contact us for more information about how we can be of service to you and your family.